The Game of Marriage
I've mentioned that Satire is not only an accurate mirror of its contemporary society, it is also an exaggerated one for the author to highlight certain issues which needs to be emphasized and magnified. The most important concern of
The Importance of Being Earnest is the game of marriage, hence it is the issue of "marriage" that is being exaggerated in Wilde's play. Wilde is not making any philosophical, ground-breaking insights into the sacredity of marriage; his object of satire is specifically the Victorian's attitude to marriage and its rigid social rules. Even though the play is exaggerating the mechanics of marriage, Wilde's play, like Jane Austen's novels, must contain some elements of truth, and it is those elements of truth which one can derive from the play that is the object of a careful study conducted in this section.
At the beginning of the play, Jack says that he is in love with Gwendolen and is going to propose to her. Algernon immediately retorts: "I thought you had come up for pleasure?...I call that business." Algernon adds, "I really don't see anything romantic in proposing. It is very romantic to be in love. But there is nothing romantic about a definite proposal...The very essence of romance is uncertainty. If ever I get married, I'll certainly try to forget the fact." Indeed, it is perfectly fine to have a little fun with flirting and romancing; but when it comes to marriage, it is strictly business. Marriage is used as a tool for a family to form a favourable alliance with another family. "Favourable" can mean many things, but these many things definitely have nothing to do with the vague and unpragmatic notion of "love": marriages are often a solid way of seeking social, economical and political alliances. I have already mentioned how Jack blackmails Lady Bracknell for his own marriage; this kind of bargaining is definitely part of the pragmatic notions of marriage. Or consider how Lady Bracknell seizes on the wealth of Cecily: Algernon is a man who needs wealth to complete his social hierarchical security. Wilde, of course, embellishes this kind of immoral business tendency with his sophiscated humour. Jack is made into an Ernest so that he truly deserves Gwendolen even despite his blackmailing; Cecily is indeed young, pretty, rich and in love with Algernon, and so Lady Bracknell's materialistic motive is temporary relieved. But there is hardly any doubt that marriage is strictly business.
Since marriage is strictly business, it is best to approach the matter as scientifically as possible. I do not mean that Lady Bracknell should conduct certain experiments with control and variable subjects; rather, by "scientific" I mean to study the matter in an objective, quantatitive manner. This means two things: 1. it is entirely possible to give a certain man or woman a certain score or ranking, based on one's social status, connections, age, wealth and political orientation; this means it is entirely possible to have a so call "perfect" man, like Jack by the end of the play. The selection process for a partner becomes formulaic, and we know that Lady Bracknell and her buddy the Duchess of Bolton have the same formulas in mind. 2. It is entirely unnecessary to consider one's feelings, for feelings can affect one's "rational" judgement. Long engagments, according to Lady Bracknell, "give people the opportunity of finding out each other's character before marriage." In any case, it seems entirely possible to artifically create one's own feelings, and we can see this in both Cecily and Gwendolen: the name Ernest is enough to stir the greatest passions from the bottom of their hearts.
If marriage is proper, serious business, then it becomes very easy to see why Gwendolen insists to Jack on the proposing to her, even though the outcome is determined: as serious business, everything must be conducted accordingly. All businesses have their rules which cannot be broken; if the rules are not followed, one has metaphorically broken the contract, and the cost of breaking a social contract is unimaginable (see Lydia and Wickham in Austen's
Pride and Prejudice). Obviously, Wilde is mocking that with his play, for we, as audience, must find it absolutely absurd to perform a proposal as Jack does in the play. Algernon's proposal is even more ridiculous: apparently he has proposed once already, but the "engagement" is broken off. Cecily's proposing adventure is a way to augment the value of her own marriage, which, as marriage is a business, is very desirable. On the other hand, we can contrast the high class' strict adherence to the rules of marriage to the lower class' lack of rules. Lane comments at the beginning of the play that his marriage was a based on a mistake. Whatever "mistake" Lane means is up for inconclusive speculation, but it seems to imply that Lane's marriage, unlike Jack or Algernon's marriage, kind of just happened, without expectations, and hence without consequences.
Not only does marriage need to be conducted properly, it must also be public. Since marriage is a business, all transactions must be made public. The appearance of social and economic power after an alliance is most important; the business contract must look successful, even if in reality it has already deteriorated into a state of indifference (like the one between Lord and Lady Bracknell). To publicize one's marriage contract, some of the rules of the marriage game requires the couple to make visits to society, publicly flirt, putting up with relations, publish any diaries or correspondences, not getting caught with adultery, etc. We can see all of these rules being played out in the play. Lady Bracknell visits her friends often to have tea and cake; Algernon comments on his disgust on seeing Mr. and Mary Farquhar flirting with each other across the table; Algernon and Jack would both have to put up with Lady Bracknell after their marriage; both Cecily and Gwendolen intended to publish their diaries; finally, Algernon has already announced that if he is to marry, with a little help from his friend "Bunbury" he would certainly forget that fact.
After the wedding, marriages are expected to fulfill its contract and are expected to be maintained unless cut short by death and divorce. Affections make no difference in a marriage, and this point is exaggerated by Wilde to the point that affections coming out of the two marriages are almost expected to change. Already mentioned is the fact that Algernon will forget the fact of marriage; Gwendolen, too, says that "I never change, except in my affections." How will the couples handle this quick change of affection is up for speculation, but it seems that given the high social status of the couples, divorce seems very unlikely: there are too many advantages coming out of this marriage besides mere affection; Jack will need the connections of Gwendolen and Lady Bracknell, and Algernon will need the money of Cecily. Their future relationship might not be a happy one, but, after all, marriage is a huge, capitalist business; one must be perfectly rational and therefore economical, and it is precisely this kind of thinking that Wilde exaggerates and satirizes in his play.